Place the following code, or some variation thereof depending on your requirements,
in the RowBinding event of your GridView:
if (e.Row.DataItemIndex % 2 = 0)
{
e.Row.Cells[0].RowSpan = 2;
e.Row.Cells[1].RowSpan = 2;
}
Remove the extra cells created due to row span for odd rows
if (e.Row.DataItemIndex % 2 = 1)
{
e.Row.Cells.RemoveAt[0];
e.Row.Cells.RemoveAt[0];
e.Row.Cells[1].HorizontalAlign = HorizontalAlign.Center;
}